Why are women this weird + Fedward Almost has 3some, instead gets squat

The "almost threesome" turned into nightmare bed 

Hi all,
last week had been particularly hectic. I was swamped with work but (I hope) managed to do a solid job. Simultaneously, my buddy had been promoted. We were looking forward to celebrate the short weekend abroad, with another friend who is about to leave SE-Asia to move back west.

Part 1: Why are women sometimes so weird (this is a question and non-rethorical)?
In this city I had met N, a stunningly sexy young actress-whatever, a few months back. She bombarded me with messages one night; we slept the following one, after my having been forced to drive licenceless as she was too inebriated. I visited 2 months after that first trip, and managed to see her the first night. The following two days instead she was "too busy". But we kept in touch sporadically. And, coincidentally, she wrote 2 weeks ago, out-of-the-blue and from a new phone. I mentioned my upccoming visit to which she replied she would be waiting "mi amor". Awesome, i thought. Too bad that the 2 sms i sent on friday, one before leaving and one upon arriving, went un-replied (unlike the previous time where she would always reply).
So i didn't see her. That was a source of grief, though not completely unexpected being her rather fickle. But still, what a contrast from her message..any inputs?

Part 2: I did not let that deter me. I had worked like a dog and was out to celebrate. Yet, glitch number 2, we hit a swanky spot (the same one i met N actually) that i've been a few times and, first time in Asia, I get turned away from the door, allegedly because i was wearing a collarless white tshirt. Great boost for morale. But not even that stops us..we hit another spot and then the main venue. There i turn down the avances of an overtly intoxicated and flirtatious chick (ie, she was pretending to hit on ever men). This raises her attraction..I end up making a closer acquaintance with her older friend, who is apparently a Pretty Successful Woman (PSW) of her own. And soon to become a fan of MrFedwardHyde.

After quite some patience, and various makeouts with random chicks (i was on fire), i manage to convince PSW to leave with me. Towards the exit we see her friend (the drunk/flirty one) being macked by some german "model" (so i heard) chump. "Great" i think, "no obstacles". Except that when we get to the cabs, the drunk chick ditches the dude and enters our car. "Fuck" i think. Until she goes "just to be clear, i'll do you also but i dont do chicks" or something like that. 3-some is on! But i didnt give much a shit, i was more than fine with PSW..we reach the hotel (pictured above)..obstacle goes wash and i begin kickin it wiht PSW. Things are getting on, obstacle is just passing out in couch..when she gets up all shakey and busts major balls that she has to go home. I try to savage teh situation gettin her involved (she turned out to be kinda too much into me, the following night) but she smells that she's in the second-tier of interest and/or is just too fucked up. This spells the end of it as we drive her back, but then PSW stays to help out a bit saying "she'd be back shortly". Yea right. So i get to go back to the hotel room at 9 in the morning and not-fall asleep as in the room nearby my other man was boning two chicks while blasting techno music. But a great weekend regardless...

Tomorrow plenty of work to fix up, until wed when it's national holiday here.

~!Mr Hyde